Now I know why

Now I know why he left. I got the mail on Saturday but did not open the bills until Sunday. The cell phone bill came in and his bill was over $500.00 in one month.

I thought there had to be a mistake at first. I started going through the numbers. There were over 150 calls to one particular number. Julie, aka "the thief's" number. Ohhh I lost it. I called her first, left a voicemail on her cell saying "since you can call my husband do damn much, the least you can do is call me and explain."

Okay, so that was not enough. Somebody was going down. Somebody was going to hurt like I did. I called Brian and only asked "who is she?" He told me her name and tried to say nothing was going on. I mean he straight out lied to me. Then he begged me not to call her, that she was innocent, and not to call her home number because that would only destroy an innocent marriage. I almost believed him for a minute. While I was trying to find more information out on her on the internet, he kept leaving me these voicemails. They were normal at first but the more I did not answer, the more desperate his messages got pleading not to talk to her. I kept thinking to myself it should be me and our marriage he should want to be protecting, not hers.

So, I called her home. Her husband, Bobby answered and I just put it all on the table. My voice was shaking ... I asked why his wife and my husband have been calling each other up to 20 times a day for the past several months. At first he kept saying it must be a mistake, so I got his email and told him to go check it out for himself while I was still on the phone, which of course he did. Finally he said he thought something was up for the past couple of months but just did not want to believe it. I heard him scream for his wife. I then asked to speak to her. I am not even going to blog about what I said to her....but I was actually very calm and never disrespectful to either one of them. She ended up admitting everything. He still tried to hide all this from me.

I just don't know where to go from here.... I am lost. For the past week I've walked around in a fog and I don't even know what to do.